Ashanti listed her eight rules for getting guys in Men's Health magazine:
1. Bring On the PDA
“I’m an affectionate girl. I like a man who’s not afraid to show his
love and grab me and give me a big hug and a kiss. I like when you pick
me up. You can even mush me until I say, ‘Okay, get away from me.’”
2. Go for Effortless Cool “Don’t put on a show for me. That’s a turnoff. Your confidence and your swagger have to come from within.”
3. Don’t Judge “I have to feel like I can tell you anything. I wouldn’t want to worry about feeling embarrassed. I don’t think I can fall in love with someone I’m not friends with.”
4. Love Your Family “I’m a family girl. You have to
have a soft spot for your kids, your mom, your dad. That has to be
something that can really penetrate your heart.”
5. Look Good– But Not Better Than Me “I don’t like
dirty shoes. If you have Timberlands, they have to be crispy. White
sneakers need to be white. I don’t like tight jeans — your jeans
shouldn’t be tighter than mine. I definitely don’t want my guy to be
more groomed than me.”
6. Pass the Sniff Test “A man’s smell is so
important. I like something masculine, not one of those old-fashioned
scents. Nothing strong, but when your hoodie is on the bed, I want to
be able to smell it. I don’t like nasty, cheap cologne. I like a
natural, just-got-out-of-the-shower scent.”
7. Go Easy on Shiny “I like jewelry on guys — just not so much that it’s overbearing. I like a nice watch.”
8. Enjoy Cereal Monogamy “What’s sexy to me is
being in pj’s all day, sitting around having fun — like I’m lounging on
the couch and I’ve got my feet on you, and you’ve got your feet on me,
and we’re flipping through the channels, eating Cap’n Crunch.”
Ladies, what are your "rules of attraction"?
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